don’t wear your l.l. bean parka to the interview, you look like a b & t, (bridge & tunnel person), not from the nyc, but that was me & my american studies degree, gatsby, hemingway, salinger, bell jar, norton’s anthology, smart kid, i actually cut off the l.l. bean label, kinda punk, kinda just whatever, brandless living in the village, enter the strand, barely glanced at me, colby kid, or dartmouth, or michigan, or name your generic mainstream college, i wasn’t sarah lawrence or bard, or maybe oberlin, khakis & bucks, yuppie, you are not hired, place was a maze anyway, books stacked everywhere, chaos, dusty chaos, enter st. mark’s, east village, pretentious, pretentious, pretentious, horn-rimmed glasses, scrutinize through me, that look, you know nothing kid, this is new york city, mecca, the edge, no instant rejection, ok fine, take this piece of paper, write down five books that we must have in the store, be ready to tell me why, uh ok, short stories of flannery o’connor, in our time, go tell it on the mountain, captain’s verses, remember, i was smart, wanted to cover all bases, gender, identity, writing style, number 5? the quran, why? no idea really, lots of muslims in the world? are any of your authors still alive? um, um, well, no, thanks for applying kid, enter barnes & noble astor place, huge building, flagship store, this is november, christmas coming, standard one-page application, fill it out, we will call you, place was busy, packed, they called, i answered, my first paid job in new york.
Tag: Colby College
Nitzana: Israeli Archeological Site 1993
negev desert, judea, where jesus once was, at least the bible says so, how to know such things? i’m digging in the earth, sliding shovel across the surface, not chopping into sun-laden ground, that breaks plates, pottery, artifacts, i see richard in the distance, bandana around his neck, this is his club med, his happy place, last night he told me about his termite business back in anaheim, says he saves up all year to come out here, to be alone with god in the land of the new testament, & he’s not wrong, they were here, nabateans, romans, byzantines, arabs, persians, turks, jews, muslims, christians, they built, conquered, lived, loved, died, their shadows surround us as we labor.
Jerry Garcia’s Fingernails
when i was a kid i thought the grateful dead and iron maiden were related, both had skulls and were scary, i never listened to their music for fear, of what, i didn’t exactly know, freshman year touch of grey came out and the seniors were all about it, with their bandanas and tie dye t-shirts, i learned not to be afraid of their music, but i still never listened to the dead, ever, until college rolled around and they became unavoidable, every boarding school wannabe quasi-hippie trustafarian played the dead in their dorm room, and i still mostly hated their music, except for eyes of the world, friends tried to get me to attend concerts, but i always politely declined, there were enough burned out patchouli-smelling colby students without spending hours in a parking lot hoping for a “miracle,” so when i graduated i was glad to be rid of jerry and his band, a couple months went by and jerry died, a year later i’m living in california, my cousin is sharing an apartment with a mortician in kentfield (marin county), i’m at their place one day, dude proudly opens a drawer, finger and toenails are inside, those are jerry’s, he beams, i will never understand the obsession.
Trying Out For Colby Water Polo
i was an athlete, six feet, maybe 190, kinda husky, remembered water polo in high school, we played in five feet of water, i liked pushing guys around, throwing the ball into the net, polk, you should come out and play with us, the colby captain said to me one night, yeah, i thought, i can play division III water polo, the first practice was two days later, i borrowed a speedo and headed down to the pool, ok fellas, we will start with 20 laps, at this moment i should have walked away, i had never swam more than a couple laps in my life, but i was too embarrassed, so i got in, labored through 7 exhausting laps, then quietly exited the water, went to the locker room, put on my clothes, and pretended the whole thing never happened.
Early Twenties
Dorm Hallway Phone
it rings and rings, that
sound now fabricated for
flat screened rectangles in
jean pockets, or purses
back then you had to jump
off the bunk bed, sprint
down the hallway hoping
whoever was calling would be
desperate enough to let it ring
8 times, 12 times, so important
that someone, anyone answer
because it could be a girlfriend
or boyfriend, or heaven forbid
a parent calling about a pet
dog who was put to sleep
then tears in front of all
the other dormers in Foss Hall
and to think this happened
maybe twice a day, the phone rang
twice a day, or maybe three times
Harpeth Hall Interview
I’m enjoying my new school (Harpeth Hall in Nashville). This August interview excerpt was from Logos, the school newspaper.
Cuernavaca, Mexico: 1991
Sleeping Outside In College
bunk beds stacked, thin mattresses
on steel spring decks, this cloistered
container, dorm room coffin where
20-year old boy-men play loud music
ska, reggae, rap, sometimes Phish
trapped inside institutional time
grab sleeping bag, late April night
up fir tree trail to quiet hilltop where
moths float over darken meadow
endless bedroom, alone for slumber
Interview with ABC News Anchor and Author, Dan Harris
I had the opportunity to catch up with ABC News Anchor and Author, Dan Harris. Dan is the author of 10% Happier, a New York Times bestselling book that explores his discovery of meditation and mindfulness.
I asked Dan about the role that mindfulness can play in the lives of young people. He mentioned the clear benefits of mindful students being able to better maintain focus, while improving behavior. He stressed that mindfulness can help kids be less emotionally reactive. In particular, we spoke about the recent developments in Baltimore. He cited the Holistic Life Foundation as an organization in Baltimore doing incredible work teaching mindfulness in high risk, urban environments. He stated that there has been an economic divide within the mindfulness community, with some people feeling that mindfulness is largely an upper middle class pursuit, but that he sees diverse socioeconomic communities embracing the practice more and more. Dan went on to share the insight that practicing mindfulness can help take the bias out of decision making. With mindfulness practice one can better see how things truly are, getting past stereotypes and preconceived assumptions.
I asked Dan about how his life might have been different had he learned mindfulness meditation when he was younger. Dan said that he would have been a better student growing up and that it would have helped him focus. He also said that he probably would have been a little less obnoxious to teachers. Later as a reporter, mindfulness would have helped him make more reflective decisions before venturing into war zones. Upon return from covering conflict zones in places like Iraq and Afghanistan, he expressed how mindfulness could have helped him be more self-aware and perhaps avoid depression related to those often traumatic experiences.
Next, I asked Dan whether he thought that mindfulness could compete with drugs and alcohol on college campuses. He said that college will probably always be a time for experimentation with drugs and alcohol, but that mindfulness can play a role in reducing binge behaviors and sexual assault on college campuses, while also helping to alleviate stress, anxiety and depression. We spoke in particular about his alma mater Colby College, where he recently addressed students. After concluding his talk there, a handsome, big, charismatic male student got up and made an announcement about an upcoming event for the “Colby Mindfulness Club.” Dan said that that never would have happened when he was a student there.
I went on to ask Dan about how mindfulness connected to his work reporting for ABC’s Good Morning America and Nightline. On Good Morning America he mentioned how he often tries to use his mindfulness training to be more aware. He is able to deeply listen to his co-anchors, slow down the moment, and be fully present in the now. For example, there are times when he is able to notice when someone on the show is being ignored. He went on to say that this isn’t something he is always able to achieve, but that he certainly makes the mindful effort. As a reporter in the field, mindfulness has made Dan more sensitive to others and a better listener. This sensitivity in turn, has translated into him being a more careful, accurate, and mature reporter.
My last question for Dan was focused on Global Citizenship. I asked him if he felt a sense of responsibility to parts of the world outside of our nation’s borders. He cited three levels of mindfulness practice: personal practice, interpersonal practice, and global collective consciousness. He said that he has made real strides in his personal and interpersonal practice, and that his opening up to a global interconnectedness was a work in progress. He went on to share that the third practice of global collective consciousness, if achieved by many, can contribute to improving the overall happiness of the world.





